“A person who rigorously arranges the world to accord with what makes him comfortable can get to a point where he is finally blinded, and it is too late. “Lord make me chaste, but not yet” (as St Augustine said) is a dangerous game; you don’t know when the point will come that you cannot see that this is happening to you, when you have no ability to understand what you are losing. “
(Federica Mathewes-Green in her blog, ‘Frederica’)