“…if a pot clashes with a pot, how much more impossible is it for people to live together without clashing….As I said and wrote to you earlier, so will I tell you now: if you trust in God’s Providence and hope in God’s omnipotent assistance, then you will not meet with such problems as you suppose. Furthermore, peace of soul will always be within your reach.”
(Elder St Ambrose of Optina,  excerpt from his letters)