“Where is your humility when you feel and say that everyone wrongs you and that only you are good? Humility is when the other person is at fault for us to do a metanoia to him saying “Forgive me my brother I am sorry” before he has time to seek forgiveness. This should not seem difficult and burdensome to you. It is nothing in comparison to what Christ the Master did for us.”
(Elder Joseph the Hesychast in “Monastic Widom”)

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