“…our only aim is love.  The instruments are your personal business. You decide for yourself how much to pray, how often to take Communion, whether to read the Gospel, make bows, and go to church. The required result remains the same: your love and its embodiment in your highly moral Christian life. If there is no result, you are doing something wrong. Perhaps you are using the instruments improperly.
(Sergei Komarov in orthodochristian.com)