“The first step towards humility is fear of God and remembrance of Him in all things that we do.  Secondly, the struggler must not love to do his own will, but follow instead the example of the Saviour: “I have come not to do My own will, but the will of Him Who sent Me.”   We must be obedient to God and His Church, in all things great and small.”
(St Benedict’s 12 Degrees to Humility)